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Kids and TV Violence by Dr. Marvin©

Numerous parents have asked about the role of television and what, if anything, can be done to ensure a child's well being. This is especially a concern with the extent of violence. Of course, a simple and effective (though highly unlikely) solution is to not own a television. There are options if you do own one, however.

You could try a channel block, but only a small percentage of objectionable material will be screened out. You could sit there with your hand on the remote control, but that wouldn't guarantee a high degree of success or comfort (e.g., Even some commercials are laced with violence, so before you run off to the bathroom you might consider having a catheter inserted while the TV is on -- just kidding!) On the other hand, trying to fully shield your child from the evils of the world isn't good for his/her development either.

Hopefully, your child understands the difference between TV and the real world. However, research reflects that kids (and adults) can become desensitized (thus being more prone to acting out anger or being violent) or traumatized from witnessing TV violence. The good news is that you can help your child develop critical viewing skills and a healthy psychosocial development by engaging in a thought-provoking discussion after they have watched a scene on TV. I am not advocating that you have a "Friday the 13th" marathon weekend with your child. However, realize that even classic Disney movies have violent content. Here are some questions to consider addressing with your child.

  1. What did the injured character feel?
  2. How would you feel if it happened to you or me?
  3. What would you feel if you had done the hurting?
  4. What consequences would happen in real life?

These questions can facilitate meaningful discussions about complicated psychological and social issues of violence impacting our society. It serves as a great way to build your child's sense of empathy and sensitivity. Remember, if you as a parent chooses to avoid this area, consider who might have an impression!

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